Wednesday, June 18, 2014

SEARCHING FOR RICKY, SUN 15JUN2014

     
Loc: Rosecrans
Time: 0700-0845
Conditions: glassy, clean, 1-3 FT, crowded.
     I wake up at 0600. Checking my phone, I see that I missed a text from Rick. It reads: “Do you want to do Rosecrans w/ me?” And then it hits me. It’s fucking Father’s Day, a holiday that’s never meant much to me, but at the same time I feel awfully late for something important. I look at the text again, and I feel terrible for leaving him hanging.
     I shoot him a text back, jump out of bed, kiss Bri on the forehead, and tell her that I’m off to surf with Rick.
     The Porto lot isn’t too packed, and I’m not surprised since the South Bay isn’t getting much surf. I park at the south end of the lot, searching for Rick’s van in the process. I don’t see it.
     Running out to the water, I scan all the heads in the lineup, scanning for a bald-headed shredding goofy footer in a Hurley wetsuit. I walk all the way to the 34th Street Tower. Maybe I missed him?
     I paddle out anyway. The tide is low, and the conditions are clean. Surfline had called for tiny conditions, but the Rosecrans area is working well. I catch a clean two footer, expecting it to moosh out from its softness, but it’s actually rippable. I get one turn before it closes out.
     Paddling through the Rosecrans lineup, the set waves are even better at three feet, but the crowd here is thicker. No sign of Rick. He could be all the way by 45th Street, but I didn’t see his van in the lot, so I decide to just stay where I’m at.
     The session is better than expected, and I pick off some small lefts and rights, even scoring on a big right that allows me a decent backhand snap.
     Back at the car, I check my phone. Rick’s at Blue Butterfly. I tell him I’ll meet him there.
     When I see him, he says that he had started at Rosecrans, but he paddled over to 42nd Street. Figures. But I’m not butt hurt that I missed him this morning. It’s Father’s Day, and I’m stoked to at least meet up with him. I offer to spring for coffee because of the occasion, but he insists that he buys me not only coffee but breakfast too. We fight over who’s gonna pay until the cashier gives us an annoying look, so I give in.
     My dad’s a deadbeat. I’ve said it before. The only thing taught me is to not be like him, so if the time ever comes for me to be a father, I know I’ll be a good one. Although, I don’t plan on it.

     I grew up looking up to my friends’ fathers, but none of them set good examples. When it comes to Rick, he was my squad leader in the National Guard. He had taught me how to surf after our deployment together back in 2001. He spoils the hell out of me, even though I try to refuse. Anyway, so I missed the session with him, but I’m so glad to be here right now, sharing a bagel sandwich and sipping a cup of coffee with him. I’ve never had much to celebrate for Father’s Day. Right now I have Rick. 

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